In my work with couples over many years, especially because I do so much infidelity work, there are people who I thought were lying when they actually were not. And there were also people I believed were truthful, who were lying the entire time.
Difficult information is hard to deliver. It takes courage, a plan, and a whole lot of mutual respect. But mostly courage! So be tender but be decisive.
Most people think that what the average guy is looking for today in a woman depends on how old he is, maybe his education, and perhaps even his background.
Nope!
We’ve all been there. We’ve all found ourselves looking at our significant other knowing full well that he’s not the right guy for us. Yet we try to make the best of it. We hope things will change. We hope HE will change. We hope WE will change.
When you married your husband, you may have considered him single because he was divorced. Who could blame you? Though it’s true that he was divorced, it is less true that he was completely single if he has a living ex-wife and/or children from a previous marriage. I’m pretty sure you know this already or you wouldn’t be reading this blog post.
If you’re worried that you’re looking at your significant other and feel a deep disdain and loathing for him, you’ve got LOTS of company! He probably did something to completely unhinge you or make you feel unforgivably disrespected. I don’t know. What I do know is that you’re not alone. It’s likely temporary. But here’s a reasonably benign, though incredibly irritating collection of what I hear about the most
Broken hearts are always difficult to deal with. But we can’t just sulk in our sorrows forever! Check out some of these helpful strategies for mending a broken heart. Feel free to add additional tips in the comments!
There are lots of people out there who hate the word endure. They hear struggle; they hear indefinite pain. I don’t happen to hear it like that. I have been lucky enough to see the amazing outcome that people get back in their relationships and personal accomplishments when they hang in there and work through tough stuff. I’ve endured my way through a lot of hard stuff and I am SO grateful I did.
I want to teach you today about how to deliver a great apology. It’s one of those things that we all think we do pretty well, but in truth, there’s a whole lot of room for improvement. For all of us. BIG people know how to apologize well. Giants, actually.
To those of you out there who have deeply disappointed your spouse by being unfaithful, and who may be really struggling because you can’t seem to fix things, I have a few ideas that usually go a long way to repair the damage, and perhaps get you a second chance.
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