In my work with couples over many years, especially because I do so much infidelity work, there are people who I thought were lying when they actually were not. And there were also people I believed were truthful, who were lying the entire time.
Most people think that what the average guy is looking for today in a woman depends on how old he is, maybe his education, and perhaps even his background.
Nope!
When you married your husband, you may have considered him single because he was divorced. Who could blame you? Though it’s true that he was divorced, it is less true that he was completely single if he has a living ex-wife and/or children from a previous marriage. I’m pretty sure you know this already or you wouldn’t be reading this blog post.
Have you ever made the decision to enter into individual counseling or perhaps couples therapy and google professionals in your area? It is such an overwhelming task for many that they oftentimes give up because of fear of making a mistake in choosing the wrong person. I am frequently asked for referrals by other people. That is a huge responsibility for me because I always want to make sure I do the best job I can to find a counselor who’s going to be a perfect fit.
If you’re worried that you’re looking at your significant other and feel a deep disdain and loathing for him, you’ve got LOTS of company! He probably did something to completely unhinge you or make you feel unforgivably disrespected. I don’t know. What I do know is that you’re not alone. It’s likely temporary. But here’s a reasonably benign, though incredibly irritating collection of what I hear about the most
Broken hearts are always difficult to deal with. But we can’t just sulk in our sorrows forever! Check out some of these helpful strategies for mending a broken heart. Feel free to add additional tips in the comments!
Most couples I meet have a positive outcome, because most couples who want their marriage to survive go to a therapist who specializes in infidelity. It’s been my experience that we all get what we’re truly looking for.
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